One of my friends is "D" and she is a parent of a surviving twin. We both catch ourselves saying "only you will understand this........" it is just that way of understanding. I have a couple other virtual friends that are Mama's of surviving twins as well. One I adore so much and know in my heart one day I will get to meet "B" IRL.
So in time I have learned to get past the things most commonly said to us twin Mama's.....
"At least you got to take home one"
"God only blesses you with all you can handle"
"Is she your only child"
But with all of that being said I would not give up being Sophia and Mya's Mommy for anything.